Sometimes you feel like you need a translator to figure out what your lover is saying when it comes to sex, right?
It either sounds too simple to be true, or it’s the farthest thing from your imagination. Don’t call Rosetta Stone, we can help you right here. Read on.
When she screams: Don’t stop! Don’t stop! Don’t! Stop!
What she means: Please continue doing exactly what you are doing without changing the tempo or pressure. This is not the time to get creative in an attempt to take things to the next level or show off. You are at the next level, all she wants is for you to keep doing exactly what you are doing, and I do mean exactly, for just a little while longer. So use all your will power to ignore the cramp in your calf, the stitch in your side, or your parched palette, and whether it’s clockwise, counterclockwise, side-to-side or up and down, don’t stop!
When he states: I think the kids are asleep by now… I locked the door.
What he means: Let’s get busy.
When she asks: Are you more of a derriere man or breast man?
What she means: Sure, you hear this as an honest question akin to whether you want salad or fries, but the truth is she is asking if you find her sexy. Although honesty is the best policy, when it comes to women and body/weight-related questions, you are treading on very thin ice, my friend. If her assets are not your faves, I would suggest you say, “both.” This is not being devious, this is being polite. (Consider yourself asking her what is more important to her, “length or girth?”).
When he asks: Why are you putting all those clothes on to come to bed?
What he means: Don’t bother, I am just going to take them all off.
When she says: Talk to me…
What she means: Thankfully, this is not the same “talk” of, “we need to talk,” or “we don’t talk anymore..,” or “you are all talk.”
This means either: 1. Say something sassy/romantic as part of foreplay (or just pretending you are Gomez kissing Morticia’s arm muttering in another language will do), or 2. Say something dirty to turn up the heat in the bedroom; this usually involves describing a “what I am going to do to you,” type scene you can detail. Luckily these can be completely improbable and lacking in any sense of reality…No joke, go hog wild. Get as raunchy as you want as long as you steer clear of scenarios that include her mother, her sister, the neighbor or her best friend.
When he suggests: How about a quickie?
What he means: I really just want to have sex, without all the bells and whistles. Can you cut me some slack? Really, just count to 10, I’ll be fast.
When she suggests: Let’s try something new/something we’ve never done.
What she means: There is a slight chance there is a question underneath this suggestion, one that is asking “are you bored with me/our sex life?” If this isn’t the case, it might unfortunately be the reverse, in which she is being tactful in saying that things may be getting a little monotonous for her. What not to do: Look exasperated. Now would be the best time to break out the fuzzy handcuffs, the improbable role play scenario, or just raid the kitchen for the can of whipped cream.
Got the gist of it? If all else fails, use humor. Lower your voice to a whisper and confer with him/her about logistics. You should never be faulted for trying to be a more accurate when it comes to lovin’.
Why do women moan during sex?
Moaning is a way of communicating or expressing excitement and pleasure. Some women and men moan as a signal to let their partner know that the sensation feels good. Others utter sounds and let their bodies move freely as they “lose control” and allow themselves to be part of the sexual and satisfying experience.
Movies, television, and music present us with idealized sex scenes or lyrics of people moaning and panting at the height of passion. In reality, some people are vocal and may moan and groan, other folks may muffle any sounds with a pillow, and yet others may not make a single peep. Some express themselves by twitching or moving their bodies rhythmically as a response to sexual pleasure.
Moaning doesn’t only happen during sex. Some people make small sounds while kissing, giving or receiving a massage, or snuggling. Others don’t have to be sexually excited to make a sound. While humans don’t typically purr, some people may make a soft moaning sound when their hair or head is stroked — just like a cat might if it were being petted. There are also times when someone might be eating something really fantastic and a light mmm… sound might express the way s/he’s feeling as s/he is savoring the taste.
Sex and sexual ways are always fascinating as each one act and react differently during lovemaking. No ways could be defined and imposed on the act of sexuality as it purely depends on the circumstances and mental situations. There are some common behavioral patterns observed in the act of lovemaking just as panting, moaning etc… You may ask this question quiet naturally that why do women moan during sex? Is it because of pain or pleasure? Or is it a way of communication during sex?
Women moan for different reasons during sex. First of all it is a rhythmically way of communicating or expressing excitement and pleasure. Some women moan as a signal to let their partner know that the sensation feels good. Others utter sounds and let their bodies move freely as they “lose control” and allow themselves to be part of the sexual and satisfying experience. Movies, television, and music present us with idealized sex scenes or lyrics of people moaning and panting at the height of passion. In reality, some people are vocal and may moan and groan, other folks may muffle any sounds with a pillow, and yet others may not make a single peep. Some express themselves by twitching or moving their bodies rhythmically as a response to sexual pleasure.
People moan not only when they have intercourse. Some people make small sounds while kissing, giving or receiving a massage, or snuggling. Others don’t have to be sexually excited to make a sound. While humans don’t typically purr, some people may make a soft moaning sound when their hair or head is stroked just like a cat might if it were being petted.
Even though moaning is usually an expression of the pleasure and satisfaction, it may not remain the same always. When having a wild sex she may moan out of pain also. When stroked the most sensitive parts of a women with all the wildness of male power she may moan, in fact weep, out of helplessness and pain.
Studies prove that moaning during sex has greater impact on both the partners. If a woman moan to release the stress and express the pleasure, listening to the voice of the partner makes men more energised and awaken. It’s definitely nice to know how your partner is feeling during sex. If a girl moan during sex out of pleasure it a certificate to the skills of the male partner to satisfy a girl and provide her pleasure. Moaning is a statement that she enjoys the act and wants more of the sort.
Making love to a ‘motionless’ or ‘voiceless’ mate is like having it with a dead body. Moaning and groaning makes the act more active and the male mate will feel the involvement of his female partner. Some women feel moaning and and groaning is like being uninhibited and making yourself totally vulnerable in front of your mate. But, in fact, moaning, just like any other sexual act, has it’s own role in sexual pleasure.
Some women even fake moaning to just make their men know that they are enjoying the pleasure when they may not be into such deep pleasure. What ever it be, men like when his mate moan when he is busy with the action. Sex is an act of mutual involvement of two physical bodies as well as two minds. Moaning lets the other one know the intensity of pleasure he is able to provide to his lady mate.
You may, or may not, want to expand your moaning repertoire. However, if you’re a screamer, you might want to be considerate of your neighbors and think about turning it down a notch.
Sources:
http://www.foxnews.com
http://living.oneindia.in/
